Author: ANTONINO

1.- NO SOUP, NO DESSERT
I was enjoying a delicious meal with a family. All of a sudden I heard the mother telling her little son: «No soup, no dessert». What does it mean? I discovered that the mother valued soup over dessert. She was putting healthy nourishment above pleasure. Actually, what she was trying to do was to motivate her little boy to eat good, healthy food. That healthy food, very well planned by her, was served in a delicious vegetable soup. That was necessary and mandatory for a healthy meal. Dessert wouldn’t be necessary nor mandatory. Dessert would be more like a reward for the boy’s effort that he would have to make to take good care of his health by eating a dish of healthy soup.

2.- NO ADVENT, NO CHRISTMAS
Today, December 1st, 2019, is the first Sunday of Advent. It is the beginning of the season of preparation for Christmas. Meditating about Advent, I was thinking, for my own purpose, that «No Advent, no Christmas». If I don’t try to understand Advent I will not be able to understand Christmas. Without Advent, Christmas will not be more than a Winter pagan festival with a crib.
In the first reading, Isaiah tells us about his dream: «Many peoples will hammer their swords into ploughshares, their spears into sickles. Nation will not lift sword against nation, there will be no more training for war». It is obvious that this can be a tremendous challenge for each one of us. Paul, in the second reading, shakes all of us to wake up now. Our salvation is nearer… In the Gospel, Jesus repeats the same invitation by saying «Stay awake, because you don’t know the day when your master is coming».

3.- WAS BUDDHA A GOD?
A man came to Buddha and asked him: «Tell me Buddha, are you a God?» «No. I am not». «Are you an angel»? «No. I am not.» «Are you a prophet?» «No, not a prophet either.» «What are you then?» Whereupon Buddha answered: «I am awake».

4.- ADVENT, TIME OF RENEWAL
After a meeting, I went with other people to a coffee shop for a cup of coffee. After ordering the coffee, I thought that it would be a good idea to have some kind of pastry. Then I asked if someone else would like to have a pastry too. Fatima answered that she only eats sweets on Sundays. My answer was that it would be a good idea for me too, for health reasons, and to do a little penance. Fatima’s answer was: «Well we are going to start Advent. It is a good time to start”. I said thank you and decided to make my Lent during Advent too. That would be part of my Advent penance. Would you like to join me?

Love and Peace,
Fr. Bernardino Andrade

by Fr. Bernardino Andrade
(bernardinodandrade@gmail.com)

«OUR LADY OF GUADALUPE WAS CATHOLIC»

The Mexican People have a deep devotion to Our Lady of Guadalupe who appeared in the Tepeyac Hill of Mexico City, on December 12, 1531. For them, the celebration of the Feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe on December 12, is more important than Christmas. I confess that I have celebrated with them, many times, this feast in California and I really miss it a lot.

One day, Fr. Lionel, a Portuguese colleague of mine, gave a sermon about the Virgin Mary and tried to explain that Mary was a very devout, normal Jewish girl who was chosen by God to be the mother of Jesus, the Son of God. At a certain point of his sermon, he said that Mary was not Catholic. Of course. She was a devout Jew. When he ended the Mass, a Mexican lady was waiting for him. She approached him and looking very sad and disappointed told my friend. «Father, I didn´t like your sermon».

The priest, who was a very open and kind person, asked her why. She knew that Our Lady had also appeared in Fatima, Portugal. And she knew that my friend Fr. Lionel was also Portuguese. And then she answered: «You said that our Lady was not Catholic. If Our Lady of Fatima was not Catholic, that I don’t know. But Our Lady of Guadalupe has been Catholic during all her life».

NO CATHOLICS IN HEAVEN

I heard a story told by a Protestant minister, a very good friend of mine, that a non-Catholic man died and went to heaven. God welcomed him with love and kindness and expressed his joy for seeing him in Heaven. One of the first questions this man asked God was if there was any Catholic person in Heaven and God answered «No. There are no Catholics in Heaven». He immediately reacted: «Of course. I knew. Catholics changed things in the Bible and were so far away from its teachings».

Then another question: «What about Anglicans»? «No. No Anglicans in Heaven». And the man understood that Anglicans also were not good enough to go to Heaven. «And what about Lutherans and Baptists and Orthodoxies». And God’s answer was always «No. Those denominations are not in heaven». Finally the most important question. «And… what about my Church denomination?» The answer was also «no». This pious man got completely lost. «But God if the members of my denomination who practiced every word in the Bible, if we are not in Heaven, then please tell me: Who is in Heaven». God’s answer was: «My Son. In Heaven I only have sons and daughters. I only created sons and daughters. You, people, are the ones who made that mess. Not me».

CHRIST THE KING

Today, the last Sunday of the Liturgical year, the Church celebrates the Feast of Christ the King. When we talk about kings and Queens we always associate with crowns on their heads and somebody on the top of the pyramid. My interpretation of Christ the King is of a «FEET WASHER». Jesus didn’t come to establish the Catholic Church or any Church. Jesus came to establish the Kingdom of the Father where every human being would be, and feel, that he/she is a son/daughter of God. All human beings are brothers and sisters and all people are owners of the world. The world, food, medicine, and peace, love, kindness will belong to all human beings.

by Fr. Bernardino Andrade
(bernardinodandrade@gmail.com)

Bad Teams With Excellent Players

It was Monday morning and I was listening to the radio. The theme was about football. For sure this is not my main field of interest. I like cooperation. I dislike competition even if it is football. But the radio was on and I was doing something else. All of sudden I heard a statement that made me think and brought me many memories. Some very good, and some not that good. What I heard was:

«This team has very good players but this team is a very bad team».

Even if it sounds like a contradiction I understood immediately and perfectly. I have been many times part of that «bad team» with «good players». To be a good team doesn’t mean necessarily to have good players. To be a good team means that the players play TOGETHER.

TOO MANY COFFEE POTS

In many parishes of America, where I worked for 32 years, there is a very good tradition. When people meet, before the meetings, there is always somebody in charge of making coffee and when the members of the group start arriving they are welcomed with a hot cup of coffee. It is a good ice-breaker to help people to socialize and be «warm» before starting the meeting.

Some parishes have many groups and associations. But one of the things that I don’t like and makes me sad is when each group has its own coffee pot. Maybe this is not general but some even write their names and don’t appreciate when other groups «invade their property» and use a coffee pot that is theirs. One day I heard a priest saying that we can evaluate the life of a Parish on how many coffee pots exist.

WHO WOULD GET THE CREDIT

Actually, in reality, this is a parable of what, very often, happens in our lives and in the lives of our churches and in our society. More important than serving is who will get the credit. That’s why I can be a good player but I also want the credit. I also want the reward to add to the other rewards that are already on my shelves to show others how good I am.

ANGLICANS AND CATHOLICS «PLAYING» TOGETHER

One of the most meaningful things about Ecumenism is when we invite the non-Catholics attending our Mass at Penha de França, to join the priest around the altar and say the Our Father or the Lord’s Prayer together. Now with the arrival of Father Michael Jarman to serve the Anglican Community of Madeira, we are planning different ways to unite our churches with more gatherings to pray together, to spread the good news together and to serve the poor together.

The first step is to exchange pulpits. Fr. Michael already gave me the date when he is coming to our Chapel and preach at the English Mass, and also invited me to visit his Church and preach to his congregation. Another extremely good thing is that on November 21st, the members of the People Helping People Association are going to start meeting in the facilities of the Anglican Church. They will be part of us and we will be part of them. Until now we have been meeting at Moynihan’s Irish Pub, kindly offered by the owners, Tadhg and Sinead Moynihan.

(bernardinodandrade@gmail.com)

(bernardinodandrade@gmail.com)

Rememberance Sunday

A couple from the UK who attended Mass here at the Chapel two weeks ago during their holiday in Madeira, told me about a special day that is celebrated in the UK every year in November. I asked Yvonne to write me something about this special day called “Rememberance Sunday”. Yvonne told me that Remembrance Day/Sunday is a big event in the UK and people hold the tradition, and what it stands for, very dear to their hearts. At 11am, during this mass, there will be 2 minutes of silence, just as there is in the UK today.
Love and Peace,
Fr. Bernardino Andrade
PS. I asked Yvonne to write something about this day for the newsletter. Here is what she sent me:

Remembrance Sunday (10.11.19)

Remembrance Sunday – a day for private and public recollection.
The origins of Remembrance Sunday celebrations lie deep within the First World War.

The history of Remembrance Sunday.

The end of the First World War came with Armistice Day, which is now honoured with our Remembrance Day celebrations. Arms were laid down at the 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th month of the year, an arbitrary moment chosen to end the four years of turmoil that had spread across Europe, but a moment that has become embedded in everyone’s consciousness since then. Remembrance Day is now an instantly recognisable date. Remembrance Sunday ever since has commemorated and celebrated the contribution to the war effort and victory made by British and Commonwealth troops, not only in the First World War but in the many conflicts, small and large since. The Queen and royal family, politicians, the man and woman in the street all take part in marking Remembrance Sunday.

When and where Remembrance Sunday is celebrated.

Across Britain, Remembrance Day falls on the second Sunday in November, the nearest Sunday to November 11th. From the main ceremonies at London’s Whitehall Cenotaph to small village greens across the United Kingdom, parades and church services take place to mark Remembrance Sunday. Nations of the Commonwealth, from Australia to the other side of the globe, also hold their own Remembrance Day celebrations honouring their dead from the conflicts of the World Wars.

How Remembrance Sunday is celebrated.

Wearing a red poppy is the most immediately recognisable mark of Remembrance Day. Parades and processions, ending with wreaths of poppies being laid at Cenotaphs and memorials across the length and breadth of the land are used to mark Remembrance Day. Starting at 11 a.m. on Remembrance Day a two minute silence is held, creating an unforgettable impression when the thousands of people in London to the few score in a small village all fall silent. This silence reminds us of when the guns across Europe fell silent. Veteran soldiers down to young children all take part in, or watch, the parades and processions, the military march pasts and the bands that mark this very special day, Remembrance Day.

‘Let Us Remember Them’

The First World War was meant to be, “the war to end all wars” – it never did. As all nationalities come together here in beautiful Madeira, during our two minutes silence, let us remember all who have lost their lives and those who suffer, in war and conflict, across the world.